Well, where do I begin...... I'm a 45 year old Black woman, raised in the north now living in the south ( go figure), with a grown kid (not living with me) looking tooooo good for Grannyhood (but that did'nt stop it from happening). I guess I can best be described as Coooooollll. Not in a down with what the happening thing is sort of way. But a chilly, friendly, funny, can get along with anyone, pleasant to be around type person that people like because .............I'M COOL THAT'S WHY!!!!!!!!!!duuuhhh - h Were'nt you paying attention?!

Smart and witty redhead looking for someone to enjoy life with. I've done the career thing and ya know what that does? It allows you to wake up alone when you're 50. How much fun is that? Life is for living, not for just working. I've already had my heart broken in life, don't need anymore of that. Can't tolerate "married but looking" folks. You must be single and well groomed and in the mood to meet a goddess. (my aspiration is to become someone's goddess) I want to travel with my partner. Makes coming home that much more fun, having a partner. I admire men of character, truth and inner strength. (getting tough to find those) I love just finding new places to go and new places to eat. Love cooking, hate cleaning up. (but I do it). I'm an aspiring writer, student of life, and when rubbed the right way, as passionate as they come. I'm a cup half full kind of person. I enjoy the wonders of life, and I prefer to be joyful when possible.

I have a career and a family. I would like a little romance and companionship.

I like to read but I dont have much time to do that except in the bathroom or right before going to sleep! lol I love Flea Markets and auctions! Yard sales are a fave too. I like to go hiking yes hiking! I love to explore new places and do new things!

I'm an outgoing type person...kinda shy at first, but warm up after I get to know ya. I'm a good listener, and I have a kind heart. I'm a happy person, and to alot of people, I never have a bad day. But my closest friends all know that I'm just like everyone else, good days, bad days, but mostly good days!! I love to laugh! I DON'T fight. If your mad and yelling, nothing is said, and what does get through is mostly hurtful. I will be quiet and let it cool off before I spout off, and I expect the same. I plan to go back to school to finish the nursing school I started a long time ago. I'm a care giver by nature and miss that. I was an EMT for 12 years, and loved it!! I love, love, LOVE music!!!!All kinds..from R&B to country. I used to sing a lot, in school, church, and small groups. Not so much anymore, but my car could tell alot of stories as far as my singing goes!!(Kickin' stereo) Money is important!! But how much isn't all that! Just need enough to live, be comfortable, and be able to do what I want when i want, within reason. If you want to know more....just ask. Give it a go...let's see that GREAT smile!

I am very shy until you get to know me, then I am quite open. The pics I have on here are over 2 years old. They're from a distance, but it should give you an idea.

I love life and taking care of those around me.

I am out going and love meeting people. Always ready to smile and laugh. Money is important of course, but it's not the most important thing in life. Health, friends, love and family should always come before anything else.