Fun loving woman who enjoys life, is independent, and is looking for someone who loves family and children.

Friends, family, fun.
Love making music with friends, arts & crafts, grandchildren, reading, travel, Scrabble, Burning Man, movies, conversation,
doing something good for others or the environment.

I play softball, volleyball and love pretty much all sports. I am a very outgoing yet shy woman that enjoys life. I am VERY honest and sometimes that gets me into trouble :) I love to laugh and make others laugh as well. Hey what can I say... I'm funny! No I mean it I am FUNNY! :)

I have always been attracted to the black male sense I was young. I think at age 8 my first boyfriend was jamal and he was so sweet I adored him. I am so surprised that I never married him do you think age 8 is to young hehehehe lmao here. Its funny because I was married for so many years and for the first time in my life I am learning to become a very independent woman. I know what I want out of life and I can make someone very happy. I am easy going, don;t like to yell and scream communication is number one, sex is number two hehehe you feel me lol. I have a very stable career, a roof over my head, and my own car. I am very happy with life and looking for someone to share it with.

I live near the beach, so if not grabbing a cup of espresso, or checking out the arts, enjoy walking the beach looking for colored glass, maybe a picnic lunch, perhaps cheese and wine, and just enjoy the afternoon if the weather is decent. Money is nice, but my life does not revolve around it. I have learned to live within my means, and basically have simple needs. I am a little shy at first in new situations, but am generally well liked by the people I meet. I guess you might say I am a bit of a clown. I truly enjoy joking around, and will often do and say things just to see if someone is paying attention, or for a laugh. Sadly, often, I seem to be the only person that gets my humor. Oh well. I miss my dogs, I guess you could call me a dog person. I have had many cats, and like them fine, but tend to prefer dogs. Unfortunatly where I live, I am lucky to have my fish. They don't have much personality, and are definitely not cuddly. But They do give me a lot of pleasure.

Hello -

About me, I have a great sense of humor and a child-like sense of fun. I am honest, trustworthy, kind, considerate, non-judgmental, liberal, nurturing, sensual and very affectionate. : )

I own my own home in Vancouver, WA and to earn my pennies I have a fulfilling and sometimes demanding job as a legal secretary in a Portland law firm.

I believe in personal self-growth and I am always a work in progress. While I am not overly religious, I am spiritual (I believe we are spiritual beings on a human journey...here to learn and grow).

I have not been blessed with children of my own, but I do love them.

YOU: I deeply value honesty and integrity in my friends and partners. You would have a good sense of humor and fun, but be able to be serious if the occasion demands it.

I am at a point in my life where I have the gift of wonderful friends and hobbies and a full life, but I do miss the companionship that a partner in life provides.

I hope that this journey brings nothing but good things for you!

I am just a simple girly girl bbw who wants to find a special man who is serious about dating and relationships. I am quiet but fun, shy yet sassy and a girl who will stand by you in good and bad times.

I like classical music, listen to all kinds of music. Enjoy working in my yard, hardly a handyman type. I am comfortable in my career and live within my means. Without making a list, I consider myself mainstream, conservative but not in the political sense of the word.